Apps
Discord
Very high riskA service for group communities, direct messages and voice calls. Link Family Center and review who can contact your teen alongside the servers they use.
Sources checked:Three things to do first
- 1
Connect Family Center
Open Family Center in account settings. Complete the link together in the mobile app; your teen needs to accept.
- 2
Restrict direct messages
In Content & Social, turn off Direct messages from server members and apply the change to existing servers when prompted.
- 3
Review servers together
Ask what each community is for, who runs it and what your teen enjoys there. Leave communities that feel unsafe.
What controls cannot do
A family dashboard is not a full conversation history. Keep discussing the people and communities behind the activity.
Start with this
Connect Family Center and review contact permissions together before joining more servers.
Risk level
Age rating
13+ or the higher minimum in your country
Users
Community and gaming users
Platform
iOS, Android, PC, Console
Age recommendation
Our recommendation: direct supervision for younger teens
Family Center
Parent tools
Private
Message content
Check account settings
Media filters
Rollout status varies
Global age assurance
What to watch for
Private approaches
CriticalA shared community is not proof that someone is trustworthy. Pay attention to requests for secrecy or a move to another service.
Harmful communities
HighLeave and report communities that encourage harassment, exploitation or violence.
Unfamiliar links and downloads
HighPause before opening a promised gift or game download. Never share login codes.
Uncomfortable calls
HighAgree that your teen can leave a call immediately if someone pressures or frightens them.
Set it up, step by step
- 1
Link supervision
Use the Family Center linking instructions below. Explain that it shows recent activity and selected settings, not the contents of private conversations.
- 2
Review contact settings
Open Settings → Content & Social. Review Direct messages, individual server permissions and Friend Requests; limit who can send requests.
- 3
Check sensitive-media settings
Review the sexual and graphic media filters. Use blocking in DMs where available and blurring in servers. Filters can miss content; blurring is not the same as blocking.
- 4
Separate teen protections from the global rollout
Discord’s February update delayed global age assurance to the second half of 2026. That announcement does not establish completion. Check the current account’s settings and country-specific requirements; not everyone is asked for ID or a face scan.
- 5
Review activity and limits
Use Family Center to discuss recent activity. Where shown, check Screen Downtime and the monthly spending cap; the cap excludes subscriptions. Review those separately.
- 6
Practice reporting
Agree that your teen can show you a troubling message without being blamed. Review the in-app report and block options together.
Sources and availability
Checked against published guidance. Settings have not been tested in a child account; menus and availability can vary.
Availability: Global age assurance was postponed to the second half of 2026; completion is not confirmed by the cited announcement. Check local availability.
