Devices
Smartphone
Critical riskA phone combines messaging, browsing, a camera, payments and location sharing. Set it up before handing it over to reduce distractions, private contact and access to content you may not see.
Three things to do first
- 1
Enable Screen Time or Family Link
Do this before adding new apps so the rules exist first, not after a problem starts.
- 2
Require download approval
A child should not be able to install chat, video, or anonymous apps without your sign-off.
- 3
Disable location for all apps by default
Then turn it back on only for essentials such as maps or family location tools.
What to watch for
Addictive design
HighNotifications, streaks, autoplay, and short-form feeds are built to keep a child checking the phone again and again.
Unrestricted internet access
CriticalA child can reach adult content, search for harmful topics, or open links from strangers within seconds if web filters are not active.
Location tracking by apps
HighGames, social apps, and shopping apps often ask for location even when it is not needed, creating a running record of where a child goes.
Stranger contact through downloaded apps
CriticalA phone becomes a private chat device the moment apps with direct messages, voice chat, or group invites are allowed.
In-app purchases
MediumStored payment details and one-tap buying can turn small impulses into repeated charges.
Set it up, step by step
Use the Apple path for iPhone and the Google path for Android. The goal is the same on both: limits live behind a parent-only code.
- 1
Turn on the native family tool
iPhone: Settings → Screen Time → Turn On Screen Time. Android: install Google Family Link on the parent phone and connect the child's Google account.
- 2
Lock the settings with a parent code
Set a Screen Time passcode or Family Link parent approval method your child does not know.
- 3
Require approval for every install
iPhone: Settings → Screen Time → Content & Privacy Restrictions → iTunes & App Store Purchases. Android: Family Link → Controls → Content restrictions → Google Play.
- 4
Add time limits and a bedtime lock
iPhone: Settings → Screen Time → App Limits and Downtime. Android: Family Link → Controls → Screen time → Daily limit and Bedtime.
- 5
Shut off location access by default
iPhone: Settings → Privacy & Security → Location Services. Android: Settings → Location → App permissions. Only turn location on for the few apps that truly need it.
